Sometimes life happens and you leave things to the last minute but you still need to pretend that you totally planned ahead. It's okay. I buried myself in tabs to start the search for you!Read More
Rows and rows of lacy things, straps and clasps that don't make sense, utter silence except for the stares of the sales staff that you can somehow hear being aimed at the back of your head as you float between aisles. Bra shopping in person can be very intimidating.Read More
Once I was on a camping trip with a bunch of dykes talking about our aesthetics and one of them asked what "femme" really meant. Despite our collective decades of hyper-analyzing queer culture, no one really had an answer. The closest I was able to get was pointing out people who were already doing the otherwise indescribable thing.Read More
IS BACK, BITCHES.
content warning: disordered eatingRead More
Makeup isn't the main - or even secondary - focus in my photos, so I really only have one look. But that means I've done it the same way so many times, I can get it done in as little as 15 minutes.
So what's in here? In order of application:Read More
[content warning: disordered eating]
You can tell you've taken your aesthetic too far when a tiny part of you starts to believe that if you weaned yourself off of food, you'd be able to exist as a formless being of energy, hovering in mid-air, fueled by the stars.Read More
In my photographs I might be covered in leather and metal, but what kind of lingerie do I wear with my everyday "don't fucking touch me" glare when I'm out and about? Straps on straps on straps are pretty inconvenient for taking public transportation.Read More
I've done a monumental amount of lingerie shopping over the years, for better or for worse, and I've developed favorites that I order from time and time again. They span a variety of price ranges and styles, but one thing they have in common is that I visit them exclusively online:Read More
What if you were cast in the next The Handmaiden but your 50-foot-wide, extravagantly accessorized, symmetrically framed lesbian sex scenes were actually directed by a dyke? You might want a strap-on harness to match the lush, ornate set design dutifully soaking up your sweat and the custom-composed cinematic score backing up your breathy moans (Spotify playlists won't cut it here).Read More
It turns out that lingerie is full of Estelles. There are so many, I can pick favorites!Read More